I've felt an urgency to invite people who I know care for my mother, just in case....Here she is with her cousin, who could almost be called a sister, they call each other many times a week. Greta is almost the only one she speaks to on the phone anymore, almost all her other friends have died during the past few years. That is a really hard part about becoming old. In the evening I had to take her to the geriatric ward and she is still in hospital (the part where mostly the elderly are/bädden), but was a bit stronger when we visited her on Friday. So maybe, maybe she can still come home. The problem is the nights - because her legs don't work very well any more, her balance is really bad and she needs help to go to the toilet during the night. My bedroom is upstairs and I simply cannot go down many times a night to help her. She has "aids" around her bed, but I thought of still another handle to put in, to give her something to hold onto. Now I have more time during the day to help her. I so hope she could still be with us during the summer. |
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Den där röda hatten känner jag minsann igen. :) Din nya kamera tar verkligen fina bilder. Fast jag antar att du också har en del i det hela. :)
In Australia they call it Nursing Home, it´s often in the same area of buildings of a retirement village.
Fd Matildas Fik
I am so glad that your Mom had some good visitors. How does she feel about being there? How do you feel about her being there? I remember my mom felt safer in a nursing home and that made it much easier having her there.
jj
Heffamamman: det är nog kameran som är bra, c tog ju också en bild här och den är precis lika bra! Jag är så glad att jag har en kamera nu som tekniskt går att lita på!
Matilda: blir det Finland...? Jag undrar om inte "geriatric ward" ändå skulle vara det som beskriver det bäst?
JJ: the visitors were here at our home, but in the evening I had to take her to the "geriatric ward" (maybe that is the best word to describe it). She isn't too happy with the place - she shares a room with four other women, there is no privacy and since her mother tongue is Finnish and most of the other patients are Swedish-speaking, she hasn't got anyone to talk to :(. The retirement home, which is much better, doesn't accept any new clients, since they are renovating it at the moment :( :(.
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